There is no entry in the Domesday Survey recognisably identifiable with Upton Grey, but it has been reasonably suggested that 'Aoltone' in the Survey is Upton Grey (see VCH). This manor was held by Azur under King Edward, when it was assessed at 10 hides, and by Hugh de Port in 1086 when it was assessed at 3½ hides. By 1206 land in Upton was held by Robert de Arundel, and various transactions indicate theat the Arundels were holding Upton until the mid-12thc. and it eventually passed to John de Grey, who died in 1272. It remained in this family until 1467.
The church was granted by Henry de Port to West Sherborne Priory (now Pamber) in the reign of Henry I (1100-35), and it remained in the hands of this alien priory until the supression of the house. As the priory had passed to Queen's College, Oxford the advowson of Upton Grey passed to them.
In 1877 John Oldrid Scott was commissioned to make a complete survey of the church with a view to its restoration. work began on the tower in 1879 and moved onto the chancel in 1880-81. Work began on the nave in 1882, including a new roof, and that completed the restorations. In 1909 the vestry was added on the S side of the tower